Your mom fell. Now it's all on you.
The hospital wants a discharge plan by Friday. Your brother has opinions and no time. Google gives you 40 tabs and no answers. Nobody tells you what to do first.
We do. It's the whole reason we have this name.
You are not failing. The system is genuinely this confusing.
Eldercare on both sides of the border is a maze of doctors, facilities, lawyers, insurance rules, and government programs that don't talk to each other. Families burn months and tens of thousands of dollars doing things in the wrong order. The information exists. It has never been organized around your family. What To Do First exists to fix the order.
One toolkit. The right order. Both countries.
First, navigate
- Your 90-day sequence, with crisis pages for the worst week
- The exact questions to ask the lawyer, the agency, the facility
- The assisted-living decision path
- The money map for your country, US and Canada modules included
- The family meeting script, so the sibling call doesn't become Thanksgiving 2019
- The document checklist
Then, manage
- Medical appointment log
- Medication tracker
- Daily care schedule
- Care team contact roster
- Expense and insurance claim trackers
Fillable on your laptop or printable for the kitchen counter. Built with and reviewed by a certified care professional. Instant download. No sales calls. No subscription. No "free care advisor" who's really a facility salesperson.
We are not lawyers, financial advisors, or doctors, and this toolkit is not legal, financial, or medical advice. It's the map that gets you to the right professionals prepared, in the right order, asking the right questions. We take no referral fees from facilities, agencies, or anyone else. Nobody pays us but you. That's the point.
$97 USD. One time. Yours forever.
About $135 CAD. For context: a care manager's assessment runs $800 to $2,000. Lawyers start around $400 an hour. One wrong facility decision costs more than this toolkit every single month. 14-day refund: if it didn't organize your next 90 days, tell us and we'll refund you.
Beta offer: the first families get it for $39 in exchange for honest feedback.